Scared to Booked.The First Solo Trip Starter Kit
A woman in a cream outfit and sunglasses walks confidently through a sunny European street, pulling a green suitcase.

You’ve been saying‘one day’ long enough.

Let’s get you from scared to BOOKED.

This is the step-by-step plan, the confidence practice, and the backup plans that take you from ‘what if something happens?’ to a confirmed first solo trip.

Get the Kit · $37

Built for your phone. Use it at your own pace.

Nearly 100,000 women in Solo Travel Babes · Curaçao · Thailand · Belize group trips

Real talk

Waiting on somebody else is not a plan.

Your bestie's schedule. His vacation days. Her budget. Somebody's permission. Every year you wait on someone who's ready, your life stays on hold.

And here's what nobody says out loud: it's not the flight or the hotel stopping you. It's the what-ifs.

  • What if I get lost?
  • What if I'm lonely?
  • What if I have to eat alone?
  • What if something goes wrong and nobody's there?

This kit gives every single one of them a plan.

What’s inside

Two tools. One goal: get you out the door.

A practical plan and intentional solo dates to build your confidence and make solo travel feel possible.

The Scared to Booked Checklist

Your step-by-step plan from ‘I want to go’ to ‘I actually booked it.’

  • Choose a realistic destination that fits your budget and comfort level.
  • Get your mind right so you can stop second-guessing every decision and actually book the trip.
  • Know what to do if something goes wrong.
  • Arrive feeling prepared, not panicked.

Solo Date Rehab

(Because solo dates are the real baby steps to solo travel.)

Your interactive solo date jar makes practicing your independence easy and fun.

  • Find solo dates that fit your time, budget, and comfort level.
  • Stop wondering where to go or what to do alone.
  • Build confidence and get comfortable enjoying your own company.

Why dates first? Because intentional solo dates are the baby steps to solo travel. By the time you book the flight, you've already practiced being your own company. The kit gives you 5 phases, 29 steps and 56 solo dates, all in one login.

The journey

Five phases from scared to booked.

  1. 1

    Get Your Head Right

    Swap the freeze for forward motion. You'll finish this one believing you can actually do it.

  2. 2

    Pick Your Place

    End the "I don't know where to go" loop. You'll land on a destination that fits your life and your budget, with a date to book it.

  3. 3

    Book Smart

    Click "confirm" without second-guessing. You'll book with confidence, protected, and with your money working for you.

  4. 4

    Don't Get Got

    Walk through the what-ifs before they happen. You'll know exactly what you'd do, so your people stop worrying and so do you.

  5. 5

    Touchdown

    Land calm, not rattled. You'll arrive with a routine, and sit down to your first solo meal like you own the place.

Monica smiling and holding a floral teacup at an outdoor cafe table

Your guide

Hey, I'm Monica.

I started Solo with Monica to help women break out of the boxes they've been living in. The fear. The rejection. The waiting for permission, a partner, or a travel buddy before they finally start living.

Because your life don't have to be on hold just because nobody else is ready to go.

As the founder of Solo Travel Babes, a community of nearly 100k women, I've made it my mission to help women stop waiting and start experiencing life on their own terms.

From domestic trips to international takeovers like Curaçao, Thailand & more, I've created intentional travel experiences that help women discover the beauty of exploring the world independently, without having to figure it all out alone.

One thing I know for sure and for certain: the solo journey starts long before you ever board a plane. Sometimes it starts with taking yourself to dinner, exploring a new city, or simply getting comfortable enjoying your own company.

That's exactly why I created this solo travel prep kit.

Because you don't have to be fearless to get started. You just have to stop letting fear make all your decisions.

Now, let's get you from scared to BOOKED!

Monica A.

Is this for you?

Let's be honest about who this is for.

It's for you if

  • You get a pit in your stomach every time you think about actually booking
  • You've had the trip saved, screenshotted or pinned for ages and still haven't clicked confirm
  • You keep waiting for someone to go with you
  • The what-ifs get loud: getting lost, eating alone, something going wrong with nobody there
  • You're afraid the anxiety will peak the night before you leave or the second you land
  • You want a plan, not a pep talk
  • You're ready to start, whether that's a weekend away or across the world

It's not

  • A done-for-you itinerary
  • A travel agent or a booked trip
  • Medical or mental health advice
  • For the woman who wants to keep making excuses and has no plan to put action behind the desire. This kit works when you work it.

Questions

Quick answers.

I've never traveled alone. What will I actually get out of this?

You'll go from "I could never" to a first solo trip you planned yourself. You'll have a destination you chose, a booking you made without second-guessing, backup plans for the what-ifs, and the confidence of already having taken yourself out. It starts with mindset and solo dates before you ever look at a flight, which is exactly why it works for first-timers.

Does my first trip have to be far away?

No. A solo trip is a solo trip is a solo trip. A weekend in a city a couple of hours away counts, and so does a flight across the world.

How do I get access?

Instantly. Right after checkout, you land on a private page where you create your login with your email and a password. Then you're in, and both the checklist and the Solo Date Rehab jar are waiting under that one login. No waiting on an email.

Will it work on my phone?

Yes. Both parts are built for your phone, so you can check off steps and draw dates on the go.

Is the spiral section medical advice?

No. It's grounding support, plus a list of real helplines. If you ever feel unsafe or in crisis, call your local emergency number.

Ready?

You don't have to be fearless to get started. You just have to stop letting fear make all your decisions.

$37Scared to Booked: The First Solo Trip Starter Kit
  • The interactive Scared to Booked Checklist
  • Solo Date Rehab, your digital solo date jar
  • Spiral card, support page and emergency info card
Get the kit · $37

Let's get you from scared to BOOKED.

Check entry rules, health requirements and safety advisories for your own destination before you book. They change. This kit is for planning and practice and isn't medical, legal or financial advice.

Scared to BookedThe First Solo Trip Starter Kit
$37